Never cry for one who makes you cry

Hi folks,

I’m back with yet another story, this is totally different and ofcouse unexpected one.  But I feel that this will be highly motivating especially for the teens.  Ok let me narrate the story that I had read long ago.

Once, there was a guy, who was in love with a gal. She wasn’t the most beautiful and gorgeous but for him, she was everything.  He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him, “why do you dream so much about her, when you don’t even know if she loves you or not? First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not”. He felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her. One day when he proposed, she rejected him. His friends thought he would take to alcohol; drugs etc. and ruin his life.  To their surprise, he was not depressed. When they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied, “‘why should I feel bad?       I lost one who never loved me & she lost the one who really loved and cared for her.”

Never Cry for One Who Makes You Cry!

How true is this my friends?   God had provided us a wonderful body and soul for the sake of experiencing and enjoying our life, but lot of ignorant and coward people sacrifice their life for this perceived love failure,  I had also seen people who had lost interest in life and gone mad.      If you had failed in love it does not mean that your love is false, it actually means that you had loved a person who does not deserve to be your love partner.    

What ever happens in our life, we need to grab the experience out of it and start moving on.    Life is a beautiful journey you should not abandon this journey because a person you liked did not board the vehicle.   Instead start loving your journey and gift it with lot of success and achivements, if you did so then your journey will become meaningful and you will create a meaning to lot of people in this world.

So lets start loving our life and make our journey a meaningful one….

Have a wonderful time.




  1. 1
    Shakila Says:

    This is a real good one!!!! Good to look at life with this perspective 🙂

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    thammayya Says:

    Good one Saravanan!! A good perspective about love failures. In fact, we can keep our minds calm, if we have positive attitude at things. That is why it is told ‘Mana eva manushyaNam karaNam bandha mokshayoh’!!

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    Pralhad Patil Says:

    I beg to differ, More often than not love is unidirectional and there is no problem with it. But a problem only when you expect love in return. So the key is not to have any expectations. If love is in your destiny you will get it. So many things in nature just give and they hardly take any thing back. That is why they say “The best things in this world are free”.

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    Ashok Raj Says:

    A story of an optimized mind set…
    Let’s hope our mind goes into this direction of Optimized path…! 🙂

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